FARGO—A Spirit Lake man will spend 60 years behind bars related to a gun assault and for shooting his ex-girlfriend in the face. The story began to unfold five years ago when Gordy was. She's a sweet southern girl who's wonderful with older kids and loves to play! Home; Chapter 1 - Gone Missing; Chapter 2 - The Best Laugh; Chapter 3. Honor and good character, they were the essences of a real man.